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One Night Stands...

So are these still a thing? I guess I thought they were kinda played out until I went on vacation recently. A group of successful, handsome men...all married or in a relationship, but their travel was strictly to put all of their home life behind them. A weekend of fun with no limitations and then proceed to get back on the plane as if nothing happened that weekend. Life goes back to normal, but then you reminisce on that pleasureful weekend and you take it a little further with some "secret business trips" to rekindle that weekend on the sly. But now those weekends are turning into every other weekend visits and this one-night stand that was supposed to be so easy to forget has led to a situationship. Now what? How do you stop this? Who is in the wrong? The things you talk about in a pool at a hotel while drinking...y'all thought I was talking about myself, huh? Oh, hells no! I was married to a cheater, I can't do that to someone else no matter what!


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This post speaks volumes. When someone does you wrong, you often want to see what karma has for them firsthand, but that is so unhealthy. Keep living your best life in spite of. My glow up has been EPIC! I encourage all of you to keep glowing, trust me...The ones that hurt us have to live with who they are...and that is punishment enough! #heiswhoheis

Mama said...

This picture is so true. We often find ourselves in situations that we feel we can't get out of or that someone has told us to walk away from, but it's like our feet are planted in cement. Some people like their lives in chaos or they fear the change it would bring if they left, but the bottom line is you need to think about you! What is best for you? You decide when enough is enough, just make sure it's not too late...tomorrow doesn't come for everyone. 

Cardi B & Bruno Mars - Please Me (Official Video)

Mary J. Blige - Whole Damn Year (Official Video)

I rock this shit!

You have a voice, don't be afraid to use it.  I   was always afraid to speak up and speak out due to my relationship, but I am thankful that this short cutie has an amazing voice now and using it for good. God always has a better yes. It is said that what you allow, will continue...that is why especially in raising two daughters and two sons, I had to be responsible and show them you can't allow people to treat you like a doormat.  I rose out of those ashes and my life is in a much better place today!  My business is growing and so many things are in the works for later this year. I am so blessed!  God had me go through hell and some days it felt like the end, but he was just preparing me for my purpose and for the right person he had planned to have beside me all just took me years to listen to his voice! 

Not perfect, but happy!

I stayed in a toxic marriage for years with someone who always made me feel beneath him. I was never worthy enough in his eyes. He had no respect for me, most of the time...I don't even think he respected himself. I thought by staying with my narcissistic cheating husband, it was best for my kids because I was keeping our family together...but it wasn't. It was slowly tearing me apart inside, the emotional and mental abuse I endured caused me to smile on the outside, but slowly die on the inside. I was losing my love of life, but GOD! There was a better and brighter day ahead. I was surprised how much my older three children wanted their father and I to divorce, they said they knew I wasn't happy and it was then I knew it was okay...I was going to be okay and I am. I am finally living my best life. All the dreams he crushed, are now coming true. Doors have opened and life is amazing! It is said that God won't bring you so far, just to leave you and that is so true! Not

Every day is a new day

Every day is a new day...when you are a victim of abuse, you carry so much with you. Emotional abuse is so much harder to deal with in my eyes. It's hard to think that someone that is supposed to love you forever, instead makes sure that you forget how to love yourself. It wasn't until I walked away from the only life I knew, that I started living my best life. My support system that tried to give me the courage to leave years sooner, was still there for me and helped me find my voice and my heart, well he has been my rock and I am so blessed to have him. Every day is a new journey and I am so thankful! Love should never hurt, in any way...always remember you have a voice, don't let blind love silence it.