We ended up taking tons of pics and he even cooked breakfast and for the first time in years, we all sat at the same table and ate breakfast and then sat and talked and watched the kids play Call of Duty.
What meant more than anything, was seeing my children happy and us not arguing! When the older kids and I were getting ready to leave, my 15 asked for a family pic. I think we were both caught off-guard and he was reluctant at first, but we took one anyway, it didn't kill us and the sad thing, it was our first family photo in at least 10 years.
It took us awhile, we are finally getting this co-parenting thing down and in the process, we are learning how to be friends.