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I MADE IT!

To some, that means nothing, but I am finally free and happy. The wasband is free to remarry, I can remarry…when I am ready of course, but the rebuilding really started this year. 2017 has been amazing, whereas I thought I would be depressed it’s just the opposite. Every day has been better than the day before. I have learned how to love me again, all the years of emotional and verbal abuse are behind me, I have my life back….my kids have their lives back.

No more man that made them walk on eggshells, no threats, belittling…just new beginnings from here on out!

One day, I hope my older 3 children do develop a relationship with their father, I know I can’t force it, so I stopped trying. But as for me, my happiness is NOW! My journey back to me has officially begun in 2017. I enrolled back in school, set some new goals and I am ready to take on the world….I may have been battered, I may have been tired, but I was not broken!
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